vaginismus and libido enhancers.

By | August 29, 2009

I stumbled on a livejournal entry from a woman suffering from vaginismus and low libido. She was asking people if they thought my recording The Pleasure Principle would help. Here is a copy of the comment I left on her journal.

As the author of the recording in question, I’d like to say thank you for considering it. Many women have had good results from listening to The Pleasure Principle.

However, when I wrote the script, I didn’t even consider women with vaginismus. The script includes suggestions to desire PIV (penis in vagina) and to feel foreplay increasing your desire for it. Your condition creates a pre-existing psychological block that will likely make you reject these suggestions.

But I can’t predict if rejecting the PIV suggestion will cause you to reject all the suggestions, or if you’ll be able to separate them and accept the desire to flirt and kiss. The way I wrote the script, everything ties together: flirting, kissing, foreplay, sex are all activities that connect you to your significant other. Therefore all of these activities connect to each other.

It’s possible that this recording could help you. It’s also possible that it could make you even more frustrated.