Hypnosis and the Needs of the Submissive

When I first came online to discuss hypnosis and dominance and submission, a few subs told me that a true dominant doesn’t need to hypnotize his sub to control her. But the truth is hypnosis isn’t always about what the dominant wants. Sometimes, it’s about what the submissive needs to feel controlled, to let go… Read More »

Kegel Exercises – Building Motivation through Hypnosis

I expect nearly every woman knows about the Kegel exercises and their benefits. But for many women simply knowing about them isn’t enough motivation to perform the exercises regularly or consistently. The Kegel exercises tone and strengthen the pelvic floor muscles. This provides many well-known benefits, including: including more control over your pleasure, the ability… Read More »

How to talk about Sexual Fantasies and Fetishes

How do I talk about my kink or fetish with my lover, spouse, or partner? We see this question a lot in the hypnosis fetish community. And I suspect it gets asked a lot in other fetish groups too. People who think their sexual interests are unusual are often afraid of sharing that interest with… Read More »

Women Can Enjoy Erotic Hypnosis Too

If you google the phrase “erotic hypnosis”, you can easily find dozens of sites for femdom erotic hypnosis for men, but only one or two sites selling recordings for women. Perhaps because men aggressively seek porn more than women do, there are more web sites and products that cater to men’s fantasies. But women can… Read More »

The Erotic Nature of Hypnosis

Before the Internet, it was rare to meet anyone willing to talk about the erotic nature of hypnosis. But with the internet providing essentially anonymous communities, more and more people have become willing to talk about and explore erotic hypnosis. The more we talk, share experiences and thoughts, the more we all came to realize… Read More »

How Hypnosis Can Help Bi-Curious Women

One of the first books I read on hypnosis and sexuality was The Professional hypnotism manual: Introducing physical and emotional suggestibility and sexuality by John Kappas. Kappas argued that sexual orientation could be best described as a spectrum. If you put 100% heterosexuality at one end of the spectrum, and 100% homosexuality at the other… Read More »

Playing erotic hypnosis for your girlfriend or wife

Most of my erotic hypnosis MP3s are for women listeners. But I see a lot of husbands and boyfriends buying MP3s for their wives and girlfriends.  Yesterday of my customers asked me question about playing Introducing Erotic Hypnosis for his wife. He said he played the MP3 for her, but didn’t see any change. Here… Read More »

Too tied to the computer

A couple of people have recently asked me how effective my hypnosis mp3 files are compared to yahoo videos. Both said that the videos were ineffective, and asked how they could become more receptive to hypnotic suggestion. This is a good question. Given the proliferation of youtube hypnosis videos, a lot of people must be… Read More »

Hypnosis Safety Question

I received an email today asking about hypnosis safety. This potential new sub stated that she had read of hypnotists abusing their sub’s trust and implanting post-hypnotic triggers that made the sub vomit whenever she heard a trigger phrase. The incident that she cited wasn’t just abusive, it was also sloppy and created a lot… Read More »

How long does it take for hypnosis recordings to be effective?

Q: How long does it take for hypnosis recordings to be effective? A: This is a very individual thing, and depends on many different factors. So let me borrow a model from the technical communication field. The collaborative model of communication is also applicable to hypnosis. This model states that a speaker and listener collaborate… Read More »