How to Buy Erotic Hypnosis Files for Your Wife

Most erotic hypnosis enthusiasts buy recordings for their own private enjoyment. But I’ve also seen men buy my recordings for their wives and girlfriends. They’ve offered several reasons for this, including:

• helping their spouses overcome inhibitions and enjoy more sexual pleasure,
• helping them increase their sex drive or recover it after pregnancy,
• training their women for submission and obedience, and
• sharing illicit fantasies (such as threesomes, forced arousal, and hot wife).

In nearly every case, these men wanted to share their partner’s experience. They wanted to see their partner’s excitement, talk about their partner’s arousal, and share their partner’s increased enthusiasm for sex. But erotic hypnosis is not like other forms of erotica. It’s far more intimate than reading an erotic novel or watching porn.

Hypnosis creates an intimate rapport between speaker and listener, which is essential for the subject to accept suggestions and enjoy the emotional aspects of each erotic fantasy. And in most of my recordings, I explicitly describe sexual activities between myself and the listener. This combination is essential for creating erotic anticipation, guiding the listener to visualize the scene, and creating the physical sensations that transform anticipation into excitement and pleasure. It’s also essential for persuading the subject to accept post-hypnotic suggestions.

For newbies, it can feel surprisingly intimate. If you’re not prepared, it can be downright shocking. Callie Byrne described her initial shock at how intimate the sensations felt the first time she listened to Introducing Erotic Hypnosis.

Whoa! What? Again, my mind raced – I was listening to a man, who was not my husband, talk about touching me intimately. I felt strange, as if I was somehow doing something wrong.
I took a few more deep breaths, tried to quiet the incessant chatter that was racing through my mind, and once again, focus on his voice.

He caressed down my other arm and then back again. Then his fingertips went to the center of my body, and he encouraged me to feel his touch as he caressed down the valley of my breasts and then around each one.

Ack! My breasts? What was going to happen when he got to my nipples? Was I going to feel his mouth on me?

That was it. It felt too intimate. Listening to this stranger’s amazing voice describing these sexual acts – touching my body, my breasts – wondering what was coming next – it triggered a deep feeling all right – a deep feeling that I was cheating on my husband.

Byrne regularly wrote about women’s erotica and volunteered to review my this hypnosis recording. Yet she was still surprised by the intensity of her responses. Fortunately, after she got over her initial shock, she tried again. The second time, she was better prepared for the explicit sexual descriptions, and more open to the experience. And this made her second listen far more pleasurable.

How You can Help

If you’re a man buying an erotic hypnosis MP3 for your wife, there’s a few things you can do, before, during, and after she listens, to help her enjoy and benefit from the experience.

Before Buying

Don’t just buy a recording and tell her to listen to it. Discuss your desires and expectations. Let her know why you want her to try hypnosis. Make it clear if you expect to be turned on from watching her slip into trance or if you want her to listen because it will help her reach orgasm more easily. Do you think it will increase her sex drive so that your libidos will be more in sync? Or do you expect the post-hypnotic suggestions to help her become more submissive and obedient?

Let her know that erotic hypnosis is a safe and healthy way to explore fantasies, develop your sexuality, and enhance your relationship. If she’s concerned about safety, listen to her concerns. If she’s concerned about the hypnotist usurping your relationship, assure her that it won’t happen. You’ll help her keep her desires focused on you. And assure her that listening to the hypnotist is no more cheating than reading a romance novel and fantasizing about sex with the hero.

And perhaps, most important, let her choose the recording that intrigues or excites her even if she doesn’t know why it intrigues her. Everyone has secret fantasies, and fantasies evolve over time fantasies. So it’s easy to forget your earliest fantasies; even easier to forget what inspired them. When she reads the file descriptions, she may find a file that resonates with a desire that she hasn’t voiced or a fantasy she’s consciously forgotten. (Part of the fun I’m having with the Trance Bunny series is revisiting forgotten erotic fantasies, and expanding on them to help listeners understand their fascination with erotic enthrallment.

While She Listens

Give her space to listen in private. Most women, especially those committed to monogamy, will initially be uncomfortable with their husbands watching while they imagine sex with another man. Hovering or watching her reactions will make her even more self-conscious, distracting her from the erotic fantasy and inhibiting her responses.

However, if she wants you to listen with her, do so. Listening together may help reassure her that the ‘evil’ hypnotist isn’t going to steal her away. But when listening together, don’t be concerned about the depth of trance, the intensity of her arousal, or her acceptance of post-hypnotic suggestions. Listening together may diminish the hypnotic effect. It will be more like listening an audio story. It will still be arousing, but the post-hypnotic suggestions will be less effective

After She Listens

Don’t assume she’s automatically accepted every suggestion or expect her to act as if she’s been magically transformed into the perfect lover. Ask her what parts of the fantasy resonated with her most deeply. Ask which parts of the fantasy she would like to make part of your real relationship or sexual activities.

Remember, post-hypnotic suggestions must be reinforced to become a permanent aspect of someone’s beliefs or personality. Especially when these suggestions are embedded in romantic or paranormal fantasies. Reinforcing the suggestions yourself also keeps her erotic desires focused on you and reassures her that these desires are part of your relationship.

In Conclusion

Introducing erotic hypnosis into your relationship can enhance many aspects of your sexual relationship, from synchronizing your libidos to complementing submission training. But it works best when listener and spouse share their desires and expectations before jumping in. By discussing your desires and respecting her and concerns you can create a better experience for both of you.