Frequently Asked Questions

Frequently asked questions about hypnosis in general, erotic hypnosis and Hypnotic Dreams.

Erotic Hypnosis

What is Erotic Hypnosis?

Erotic hypnosis is a broad term to describe a wide range of sexual fantasies and activities. People can use hypnosis to enhance sexual experiences by removing inhibitions, amplifying the senses, and intensifying sexual responses. We can create realistic fantasy experiences from simple tactile sensations to elaborate role-play scenes. Many people also use hypnosis to amplify feelings of sexual arousal and submission, to train slaves to be more obedient and sexually responsive.

For a more comprehensive answer, read Getting Started with Erotic Hypnosis.

Does erotic hypnosis work?

Yes, but not the way it’s portrayed in mainstream media. Everyone responds differently. Some people experience immediate deep trance and intense arousal. Others  begin with only limited responses and over time condition themselves to experience more intense arousal. Most people require practice to experience a hands-free orgasm or an orgasm on command. Trust, experience, and rapport between hypnotist and subject all factor into your response.

For more detailed answers, read 5 Misconceptions about Erotic Hypnosis and How Erotic Hypnosis Works.

What does erotic hypnosis feel like?

Again, everyone’s experience is different. Some describe it as a vivid daydream, floating on air, intoxicating, captivating, thrilling or the most intensely erotic experience they’ve ever had. Many subjects enjoy being hypnotized because it enables them to feel emotionally and sexually connected to the hypnotist. Others just enjoy feeling themselves respond to the hypnotist’s desires.

For a more detailed answer, read Erotic Audio: Why We Enjoy it.

How do I introduce my lover, spouse, or partner to this kink?

You can broach the subject indirectly by sharing stories, novels, movies or TV shows. Discuss what makes the scene sexy and what would make it even sexier. Because the discussion is about fictional characters, it’s all hypothetical. So it provides a safe, impersonal way to introduce the kink and gauge their response. For a more detailed answer, read How to talk about Sexual Fantasies and Fetishes.

Where can I meet other people interested in erotic hypnosis?

There are several online communities, including:

There are also a few real-world conventions, such as:

How do I choose an Erotic Hypnotist?

The first step is knowing yourself. You need to know if you want a moment of erotic entertainment or a long-term intimate relationship. Do you want to be feel like you’re being controlled for a moment, or be permanently changed and transformed. Then think about the different ways hypnotists may approach erotic hypnosis. Which approach is compatible with your needs?

Keep in mind that your desires may change over time. And that’s perfectly normal.

Hypnosis in General

Can anyone be hypnotized?

Nearly everyone. Some medications and medical conditions that affect the brain may inhibit the ability to enter trance as well as the ability to retain suggestions. However, the literature on this subject is scarce and inconsistent.

In fact, most people briefly put themselves in a trance once or twice per day. But different people respond to different techniques, or different types of suggestions. Some people respond better to direct physical suggestions like “raise your arm.” Other people respond better to indirect or emotional suggestions like “feel your arm become light enough to float.” I include a broad spectrum of suggestions in my recordings so they will be enjoyable for everyone.

Can a person be hypnotized against their will or without their knowledge?

It’s not possible to force someone into a trance; not if they are actively resisting. But there are several covert techniques for seducing or tricking someone into a trance. Many hypnofetishists find these covert hypnosis especially erotic. So they will often allow themselves to be seduced when recognizing the technique. This falls under the category of Consensual Non-Consent.

Will a hypnotized person do anything they are told?

A hypnotized person will do anything that feels good or seems to be in their best interest. They will also go out of their way to please the hypnotist. But they generally won’t do anything that violates their core beliefs or puts themselves in danger.

For a more detailed answer, read Can You Be Hypnotized to Act Against Your Will?

I only achieved a light trance, how can I go deeper?

Practice. By entering trance frequently, you train and condition your mind to enter deeper and deeper trances. It is the same as a runner who trains for a marathon. He starts with a short run, followed by progressively longer runs until he builds up the stamina for the full-length marathon. (Also, make sure you turn off your cell phone and make sure you won’t be disturbed during the trance.)

You can also practice several component skills, like focusing your attention, listening, and visualizing. For more on this, read, How to Become a Better Hypnotic Subject.


How long do post-hypnotic suggestions last?

This varies from person to person. Some people only retain suggestions until the end of that day. Others retain the suggestions for days or weeks. The more often suggestions are repeated, and the more pleasure that you derive from the suggestions, the longer you will retain them. With enough repetition and reinforcement, they can be made permanent.

How can I remove or erase hypnotic suggestions?

It’s not necessary to remove or erase hypnotic suggestions or triggers. Like normal thoughts, suggestions and triggers will fade over time if not reinforced. To make them fade quicker, change your environment. Get away from the computer, go for a walk, play more music, or adopt a puppy.

Can you hypnotize someone while chatting on the INTERNET?

Yes. It’s not as effective as an audio file or an in-person induction. But it is possible. It works the same as reading a book. As you read the words, you visualize in your mind what the hypnotist is describing. The more vividly you visualize this, the deeper the trance.

The basic problem with this type of induction is the lack of feedback between hypnotist and subject. The hypnotist is unable to see the subject’s face. So they’re forced to guess at how well the subject is responding. There is also a risk of getting disconnected without knowing it, leaving the hypnotist, the subject, or both waiting for a response that will never come.


I want to learn hypnosis. What hypnosis books do you recommend?

When my book is released, I’ll recommend it. In the mean time, two of the most interesting books that I’ve read on hypnosis are Professional hypnotism manual: Introducing physical and emotional suggestibility and sexuality by John Kappas and My Voice Will Go with You by Sidney Rosen.

I’ve also heard good things about Mindplay by Mark Wiseman. (Although I haven’t personally read it.)

Hypnotic Dreams

Do you conduct live hypnosis sessions?

Not at this time. First, I never meet anyone in person. I have considered conducting live sessions over niteflirt. But for various reasons, this has never worked out. If the situation changes, I may consider it again. If you’d like to be notified of my availability, join my mailing list.


Will you produce a custom recording?

I won’t produce something for just one person. But I’m open to suggestions for new titles. Send me your suggestion. If it’s something that may appeal to a broad audience, I’ll consider it.

Can your MP3s help with sexual problems?

Some of them, yes. I’m not a licensed therapist, so I label my mp3s as entertainment and sexual enhancements. However, I include positive affirmations and suggestions for overcoming inhibitions, increasing desire and enjoying more pleasure with real-life partners.

Read more about erotic hypnosis and sexual health.

About the Author/Hypnotist

How long have you been doing erotic hypnosis?

I’ve lost track, but definitely more than 20 years.

Do you produce anything other than erotic hypnosis?

I’ve produced a few self-help hypnosis MP3s and written one for guided meditation (which hasn’t been recorded). These require more time and research than the erotic hypnosis recordings. And since I don’t have the resources to market them properly I don’t know if I’ll produce any more.

I also write science fiction. but I have yet to publish that. As of Nov 2018, I’ve just finished the first draft of a full-length sci fi comedy. It still needs a lot of work before it’s ready for publication.

Can I be your slave?

No. I don’t believe in long-distance relationships, and I don’t accept online slaves. (Unless you’re obscenely wealthy and willing to pay me ridiculous amounts of money.)


If you have additional questions, feel free to ask.