For many hypnosis enthusiasts and fetishists, the hands-free orgasm is the ultimate experience, the ultimate proof that the hypnotist is truly controlling your arousal and your sexual pleasure. But even for dedicated enthusiasts, it can be elusive.
Defining the Hands-Free Orgasm
First, let’s be clear on the definition. Several websites define a hands-free orgasm as sexual climax without using your hands
.1 One even goes so far as to say you can achieve a hands-free orgasm by grinding against a pillow. But this completely misses the point. For erotic hypnosis enthusiasts and fetishists, a hands-free orgasm is an orgasm that results from trance and hypnotic suggestion alone, with no physical stimulation at all.
Why Hypnosis Enthusiasts Strive for it
Here are just a few reasons hypnosis enthusiasts want to experience a hands-free orgasm:
- to experience being totally in the hypnotist’s control,
- to prove the power of hypnosis,
- to prove the hypnotist’s skill,
- to experience a stronger mind-body connection (which leads to more intense arousal).
Experiencing Deep Hypnotic Domination
Movies, TV shows, and comic books often portray hypnotic domination as intensely sexy. In Dracula has Risen from the Grave, when the vampire enthralls a woman, she’s suddenly eager to invite him into her bed and be the passionate lover he wants her to be. In the comics, dozens of villains use hypnosis to enthrall lovers and victims.
Of course, these stories intentionally exaggerate the power of hypnosis, but they make you curious about how erotic and sexy hypnotic domination could be.
To Prove the Power of Hypnosis
It has long been established that your mind is the most powerful sex organ. Arousal and pleasure begin in the mind. And where the mind leads, the body will follow. And now it’s not just TV shows and comic books saying that hypnotic domination is powerfully erotic. The entire online hypnosis community is promoting the idea that hypnosis can make you feel the most overwhelming arousal and the most incredible erotic sensations.
But how do prove it to yourself? How can you be certain you’re really under the influence and not just playing along?
For the true hypnofetishist, cumming on command proves that you’ve been hypnotized deep enough for the hypnotist to take complete control of your arousal. And even for the casual enthusiast, experiencing an involuntary response (like an orgasm) in trance proves the power of hypnosis to create incredibly erotic experiences.
To Prove the Hypnotist’s Skill
Skill is sexy. Power is Sexy. Skill and power? Irresistible. But online hypnotists make a lot of claims that seem impossible. We all claim we can arouse you beyond your control and fulfill your wildest fantasies. Many also claim they can brainwash and condition you to be aroused on command, become more submissive, become totally addicted to their control, and turn over all your cash.
You know these claims are basically sales pitches appealing to your fantasy of losing control. But you want them to be true. You want to experience that total loss of control you can only experience when you feel yourself cum on command without touching yourself.
To Experience a Stronger Mind-Body Connection
Where the mind goes, the body will follow — but not always. Your mind contains a multitude of contradictory thoughts and desires. These contradictions interfere with your mind’s ability to direct the body, muting your physical arousal and pleasure.
Erotic hypnosis focuses the mind on sexual anticipation, muting the thoughts that would otherwise inhibit your excitement. This naturally enables you to experience more intense physical responses to erotic thoughts. More intense arousal, excitement, and anticipation naturally lead to greater pleasure and satisfaction.
The more often you practice, the stronger this connection becomes. And once you train yourself to focus in trance, it carries over to real-life situations. You can experience a stronger mind-body connection and more intense arousal with a real lover.
The Elements of a Hands-Free Orgasm Happen
A lot of enthusiasts believe that deep trance is essential for orgasm. They listen to promising MP3s until they condition themselves to reach that deep trance. Then they’re confused and disappointed that depth didn’t automatically equate to a hands-free orgasm.
But trance is just one of four key elements. You also need rapport, excitement, and anticipation.
Rapport
Rapport is defined as harmonious emotional communication. For the hypnotic subject, this means listening for the emotion in the hypnotist’s voice and letting yourself be affected by it. Listen for the desire, excitement, and anticipation in their voice, and let yourself share it. Let that emotion flow through your mind and into your body.
If you have trouble with this, think of it like feeling a musical beat. You hear the beat, focus on it, and then you feel it. You feel the beat echoing in your body, inspiring the desire to move with it. The more you focus on it, the more strongly you feel it, and the more clearly you feel it moving you. Maybe you’ll just tap your fingers. Maybe you’ll get up and dance. Either way, you feel the rhythm flowing through you until it becomes part of you.
Now, do this with the desire, the anticipation, or the excitement in the hypnotist’s voice. Listen for it, feel your own desire rising to match, and then feel it flowing into your body, becoming the desire and excitement that moves you.
Excitement
Excitement, in this context, is synonymous with arousal. Naturally, if you’re listening to an erotic hypnosis recording, you’re going to be mentally excited. But it’s important to let yourself feel that excitement physically. Let your mental excitement express itself in your body so that your mental and physical arousal become fully synchronized.
Anticipation
And this is the most important part: Don’t anticipate the orgasm. Anticipating the orgasm automatically leads to anticipating the post-orgasmic relaxation. This distracts you from the most exciting of the hypnotist’s suggestions.
Anticipate greater excitement. Listen for the words that excite you most. Listen for the suggestions that promise to increase your excitement. And as you listen, look forward to feeling your physical excitement grow each time the hypnotist repeats their suggestion or trigger. Focusing on physical sensations will actually heighten your awareness of them, make them feel more intense.
Conclusion
Remember that an orgasm is a response to growing excitement. It occurs naturally when your excitement reaches a certain point. And arousal grows naturally with rapport and anticipation. So you can experience a hands-free orgasm when you focus on feeling your excitement and the anticipation of it growing more intense.
