4 Ways Dominants Approach Erotic Hypnosis

If you’re submissive and new to erotic hypnosis, you may be wondering how to select a hypnotist. What should you look for? How do you know if you will be compatible? Ask them about their approach to erotic hypnosis. Every dominant is a unique individual. And everyone has their own unique reasons for exploring erotic… Read More »

Petplay: Training with Hypnosis and Meditation

We cherish our pets. We give them love, food and shelter. In return, they give us unconditional love and devotion. It’s a simple relationship that satisfies a fundamental need: deep emotional rapport with another living being. Because this emotional rapport can be so satisfying, many dominants enjoy training their submissives to be pets: Some train… Read More »

Consensual Non-Consent in Hypnotic Domination

“Safe, Sane, Consensual” is an important philosophy in BDSM relationships. It’s important because it defines the difference between healthy and unhealthy activities. Consent also defines the difference between legal and illegal acts. But the idea non-consensual sex excites people. And this is especially true of people exploring hypnotic domination. Rape and forced arousal fantasies seem… Read More »

Can You Be Hypnotized to Act Against Your Will?

In general, no. Hypnosis can’t force you to do something against your will. However, the will itself is malleable. And for many hypnofetishists, being changed to wanting (or doing) something they wouldn’t want (or do) on their own is the main attraction of erotic hypnosis. So sometimes, yes. Hypnosis is a Cooperative Effort Hypnosis is… Read More »

Sexual Hypnosis vs Erotic Hypnosis

Most people consider “erotic hypnosis” and “sexual hypnosis” to be the same thing. I however, distinguish the two activities as follows: Erotic hypnosis uses trance to create sexual fantasies and experiences. Sexual hypnosis uses sexual suggestions and imagery to seduce someone into a trance. At first, the distinction may seem trivial. (And in practice, there… Read More »

Developing BDSM Subspace with Hypnosis

Subspace is the state of mind that submissives enter to enjoy BDSM activities. When a sub enters this mental space, the dom’s control feels intimate, sexual, and exciting. Hypnosis provides the most effective methods to help a sub develop their subspace and condition them to return to it on command. But to understand why and… Read More »

Cock Control, JOI, Chastity – Yes, there is a Difference

If you search Niteflirt.com or Clips4Sale.com for ‘cock control’, you’ll find the term being used nearly interchangeably with three other terms: chastity, triggered erections, and jerk off instructions (JOI). But in my opinion, only triggered erections (through hypnotic dissociation) are true cock control. Chastity and JOI are separate activities. Hypnotic Dissociation I first discovered the… Read More »

Hypnosis and the Needs of the Submissive

When I first came online to discuss hypnosis and dominance and submission, a few subs told me that a true dominant doesn’t need to hypnotize his sub to control her. But the truth is hypnosis isn’t always about what the dominant wants. Sometimes, it’s about what the submissive needs to feel controlled, to let go… Read More »