How to Deal with Sexual Performance Anxiety

Sexual performance anxiety is a common problem. According to one study, performance anxiety affects between 9–25% of men and 6–16% of women.1 In men, it may contribute to erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation2. In women, it can reduce sexual desire, interfere with orgasm and lead to a variety of sexual inhibitions. And regardless of gender,… Read More »

No, All Hypnosis is Not Self-Hypnosis

I’ve read many books and articles that repeat this phrase ‘all hypnosis is self-hypnosis’. But this actually contradicts their definition of ‘self-hypnosis’. Self-hypnosis is someone guiding themselves into a trance. If you’re following someone else’s guidance, then it’s not self-hypnosis. So why do hypnotists say that all hypnosis is self hypnosis? To combat the popular… Read More »

Understanding the Hypnosis Fetish

There’s a fetish for nearly everything, from animated characters to furry costumes, from hypnosis to personality transformations. But what if the hypnosis fetish isn’t really a fetish? What if it’s (gasp) totally normal? Hypnofetishists, I believe, are attracted to a natural aspect of sex that has yet to be widely recognized, let alone understood or… Read More »

How to Become a Better Hypnotic Subject

Subjects new to erotic hypnosis often ask how to achieve a deeper trance. A deep trance isn’t necessary for suggestions to be arousing (especially with sexual hypnosis). But for many people, deeper trances are more erotic. Deeper trances enable you to feel more fully immersed in a forced arousal, seduction, or submission training scene. So… Read More »

How Erotic Hypnosis Works

How does erotic hypnosis work? Depends on who you ask. Hypnotists share a long running joke about the question: ‘Ask two hypnotists how hypnosis works and you’ll get three answers.’ Truth is, no one knows precisely how hypnosis works. Every theory seems to explain some aspects of it, but none account for everything we know.… Read More »

How to Be Sex Positive with Hypnosis

Being sex positive means different things to different people. For some it simply means acknowledging that sex is a natural part of a healthy life. For others it means being open to learning about human sexuality and exploring different aspects of it. But I’d like to suggest a new meaning: Being sex positive means consciously… Read More »

4 Ways Dominants Approach Erotic Hypnosis

If you’re submissive and new to erotic hypnosis, you may be wondering how to select a hypnotist. What should you look for? How do you know if you will be compatible? Ask them about their approach to erotic hypnosis. Every dominant is a unique individual. And everyone has their own unique reasons for exploring erotic… Read More »

Petplay: Training with Hypnosis and Meditation

We cherish our pets. We give them love, food and shelter. In return, they give us unconditional love and devotion. It’s a simple relationship that satisfies a fundamental need: deep emotional rapport with another living being. Because this emotional rapport can be so satisfying, many dominants enjoy training their submissives to be pets: Some train… Read More »

7 Ways to Use Hypnosis for Better Sex

Yes, hypnosis can help you improve your sex life. TV and comic books have given hypnosis a bad rap. For more than 60 years, both mediums have portrayed hypnosis as a means for villains to control unsuspecting victims. This has created a lot of misconceptions. But real hypnosis can be extremely beneficial, and we can… Read More »

Consensual Non-Consent in Hypnotic Domination

“Safe, Sane, Consensual” is an important philosophy in BDSM relationships. It’s important because it defines the difference between healthy and unhealthy activities. Consent also defines the difference between legal and illegal acts. But the idea non-consensual sex excites people. And this is especially true of people exploring hypnotic domination. Rape and forced arousal fantasies seem… Read More »